A field guide for first-time managers

The job nobody trained you for.

Writing for managers handling hard conversations, difficult bosses, and the weight of a team that suddenly looks to you. No motivational posters. No business-school jargon. Just moves that work on Monday morning.

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When Your Direct Report Goes Over Your Head: 3 Diagnostic Moves

When your direct report bypasses you and talks to your boss, three categories of behavior look identical. The diagnostic move first-time managers miss, plus the conversation that fixes the channel without burning the relationship.

8 min readManagementMay 19, 2026
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The Disrespectful High Performer

The 10-step playbook for handling a disrespectful high performer without losing your team. Four diagnostic patterns, the full cost model, an…

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MANAGING UP

Bosses, politics, and visibility

DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS

Feedback, firings, and firsts

FIRST 90 DAYS

Onboarding yourself into the role

BURNOUT

Energy, motivation, and limits

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